Worthy Widows · with Kim Fuller

Everyone keeps telling you how strong you are.

And you smile, and you nod, and you get the kids to school, and you handle the things that have to be handled. Look how well she's doing, they say.

They don't see the mornings. The ones where you wake up and, just for a second, forget, and then it hits you all over again. Grief changes more than your circumstances. It changes how you see yourself. And surviving isn't the same as living.

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The reality of what you're carrying

If any of this sounds like your life right now, you're in the right place.

You've lost your best friend, your partner, the one person who truly had your back. And now every decision, every bill, every hard parenting call lands on you alone.

Some days you're just so tired of carrying all of it by yourself. The loneliness is a specific kind. It's not that no one cares. You have people who care. It's that no one really gets it.

You can't share the parts of your life that matter in a way anyone truly understands. The friends you had were mostly connected to him, and slowly they've drifted.

And then there's the part no one prepared you for: you're not a single parent, you're their only parent. Nobody in the world will love your children the way he did. You feel the pressure to get it right, and most days you don't have a clue what you're doing.

Every happiness now comes with a side of grief attached. Your child does something wonderful and you turn to catch his eye, the way you always did, and he isn't there.

None of this makes you weak, or ungrateful, or a bad mother. It makes you a woman carrying something most people around you will never understand.

The thing no one says out loud

You may have quietly decided you're broken.

When he died, part of you decided it was over. That you couldn't possibly build a good life now. That the dreams you shared are gone, and whatever's left is just something to get through.

Underneath the loneliness and the exhaustion, there's often a quieter, heavier belief: that you're broken. That something inside you is damaged in a way that can't be repaired, and that this smaller, greyer version of life is simply what you get from here.

That belief is the real thing holding you back. And it isn't true.

You are not broken. You are grieving.
And grief, even years of it, is not a permanent state of being. It's something you move through, especially with the right support beside you. Joy and grief can live in the same place. Feeling happy again doesn't mean forgetting him.
The possibility

You said it quietly, maybe only to yourself:
I want to have fun again.

Imagine what the next year could hold.

Friendships that are yours. A social life that belongs to this chapter, not the last one. Feeling steady and strong instead of like you're barely holding on. Making decisions with confidence, and having someone in your corner while you do.

Watching your kids thrive because you're no longer running on empty. And when you're ready, in your own time and without the guilt, being open to connection and companionship again. Knowing what you want, and what you deserve.

This isn't about forgetting him, or "moving on" in the way people who don't understand keep pushing you to. It's about moving forward. With purpose. With resilience. With the belief that you deserve the opportunity to experience joy again.

The world can be colourful again. Not the same, but full.
Portrait of Kim Fuller
Meet Kim

I know this because I've lived it.

In the space of one year, I had a baby, got married, was demoted from my senior director role at a mental health agency, and became a widow, with a ten-month-old daughter.

I know the emotional whiplash intimately: the anger, the sadness, the guilt, the shame, the overwhelm that all arrives at once and refuses to leave. And I know how long you can carry it alone.

It took me a little over a year, and the encouragement of the people who loved me, before I finally got help from a grief coach. That help changed everything.

I learned to notice the courageous choices I was making every day without even realising it. I learned that anger and sadness don't exist alone, that there is room for joy and contentment right beside them.

I learned I was worthy of happiness, and even of love and affection again. I learned to ask for help, and to accept it.

I learned that holding onto my anger about his death wasn't keeping me safe, and it wasn't keeping me close to him. And I learned that I would never forget him, and how to talk about him with my daughter so she stays connected to him too.

That's the work I now do with other widows. Not as someone looking in from the outside, but as someone who found her way through, and wants to walk beside you while you find yours.

The Worthy Widows Program

A full year of support, built for exactly where you are.

Worthy Widows is a 12-month, one-on-one coaching journey for widows who are ready to rebuild.

01

Weekly private coaching calls

Every week, a 60-minute one-on-one session with me. A safe, judgment-free space to say the things you can't say to anyone else, work through what's hard, and take real steps forward.

02

Your own private coaching space

A secure space online to celebrate your wins, stay accountable, and actually see your progress over time, so you never lose sight of how far you've come.

This is real, steady support over a full year. Not a quick fix, because rebuilding a life after loss isn't a weekend project. It's a journey. And this time, you don't have to make it alone.

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Who this is for

Is this for you?

Worthy Widows is for you if...

  • You're at least a year out from your loss, and something in you is ready, not to forget him, but to move forward.
  • You want more than to just survive. You want friendship, confidence, a life that feels like yours again.
  • Part of you already suspects you're capable of more than this chapter has let you feel.
It's probably not the right fit if you're in the earliest, rawest days, when what you need most is time and gentleness. There's no rush. When you're ready to build again, this will be here.
The investment

Let's be honest about the investment.

$5,000 for the year
or $420 / month

Worthy Widows is a full year of dedicated, one-on-one support. And if part of you just thought "I could never justify spending that on myself", I want you to pause there.

Because that hesitation usually isn't really about the money. It's the quiet belief that you're not worth it, or that you're too broken for it to work anyway.

That belief is exactly what keeps widows stuck. You are worth investing in. Your next chapter is worth investing in. And you are not too broken to be helped. You are grieving, and grief responds to support.

Frequently asked questions

Questions widows often ask

I've never done coaching before. Is that okay?

Completely. Most of the women I work with never have. You don't need any experience, just a willingness to show up for yourself.

What if I'm still grieving?

You will be, and that's okay. This was never about being "over it." It's about learning to carry it while still building a life you actually want.

I'm not sure I'm ready.

That's exactly what the call is for. We'll talk honestly about where you are, and if it's not the right time, I'll tell you gently.

Is it really worth the cost?

Only you can answer that. But ask yourself what another year of feeling stuck, lonely, and unlike yourself would cost you. This is an investment in getting you back.

A gentle next step

You deserve the opportunity to experience joy again.

Not to forget. Not to rush. Just to feel like yourself, build a life that's yours, and stop simply surviving. If any part of this felt like it was written about you, let's talk.

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